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135 Questions Every Christian Should Ask Themself to Evaluate Their Faith

The Importance of Reflecting and Evaluating your Faith

Taking the time to deliberate on your faith is imperative for your spiritual well-being and growth. Consistently evaluating your faith offers you the opportunity to really get to know and understand where you stand as a Christian. It can provide insight into where you stand solidly in your beliefs and relationship with God. Conversely, you will be able to see areas that are lacking, and are in need of focus and polishing up. Moreover, reflecting on your faith affords you the freedom to exercise awareness, allowing you to better take notice of God’s presence in your daily life. 

Taking a hard look at yourself is a valuable tool that can be used to enhance your spiritual development. We have assembled a list of questions every Christian should ask themself in order to get down to the nitty-gritty and truly understand where they stand in their faith. 

The Questions and Suggestions About Answering Them

  • These questions allow you to examine your faith, beliefs, and stances. Some of the questions may require much vulnerability on your end, causing you to feel overly exposed and uncomfortable. Feel free to skip over any question that makes you feel this way, but take note that answering these questions will provide the greatest insight into your strengths and weaknesses. It is in our discomfort that we latch onto the ability to grow. 

  • Consistency is key. Create and keep to a schedule where you can set aside the time to routinely check in and ruminate on your faith. This can be done weekly, bi-weekly, monthly, or whatever works best for you. You can break up the questions and answer 3 (or however many you’d like) of them at a time, according to your schedule. 
  • Sometimes it is too difficult for us to be fully honest with ourselves. Turn to God and ask Him to show us where in our lives need improvement and guidance on how to make it possible.
  • You can answer a question once, write your answer in a journal, and come back to it at a later date to compare and assess how you feel now. Tracking your answers is a fantastic way to chart your growth. 
  • It is expected that your answers will fluctuate over time. Don’t let that deter you from working on your spiritual health. 
  • Some of the questions may not seem like they are targeted toward your faith. They’re in there so you can analyze who you are as a whole person. While some of the questions seem irrelevant, they aim to give you a deeper understanding of the various roles you take on each day and how your faith factors into them. 
  • Many of the questions can be answered with a simple “yes” or “no”. Try to explore your answers further. 
  • Remember! Pray to God for guidance and help in any area you feel you are falling short. 

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  1. Would I be disappointed in someone else for behaving in a manner that I behave?
  2. Why do I follow Christ?
  3. Is there evidence that contradicts God’s existence?
  4. Do I think all sins are equal or are some worse than others?
  5. Do I tend to go against my values and conform to the group?
  6. Is there anybody I have not forgiven?
  7. Am I comfortable praying out loud?
  8. Is my faith a component of my personality?
  9. Why does God want a relationship with me?
  10. Am I a good example?
  11. What role does the Bible play in my life?
  12. What makes God, God?
  13. Am I the same person around others as I am by myself?
  14. Am I the kind of person that I would like to be friends with?
  15. What kind of people do I associate with?
  16. What is my purpose in this life?
  17. I know the Bible is historically reliable because…
  18. What do I pray for?
  19. Do I strive to be more Christlike every day?
  20. Do I stop and give a dollar or two to a person with a sign on a corner? Why or why not?
  21. Do I show patience?
  22. What do I expect from others?
  23. Do I hold grudges?
  24. What do I do to promote spiritual growth?
  25. What are my values?
  26. Something I do to stay true to my values is….
  27. Do I share any of the same traits with Christ?
  28. Do I serve others without complaint?
  29. What are my talents?
  30. Three ways I pray for others are:
  31. Sometimes I disobey God when….
  32. Am I easily irritated?
  33. Am I content with what I have or do I find myself always wanting more?
  34. How do I know God is listening?
  35. One thing I would tell a non-believer who was interested in learning more would be….
  36. My favorite thing about church is….
  37. Do I put others first?
  38. My favorite book in the Bible is….      Because….
  39. Do my thoughts reflect those of Christ?
  40. Is there someone in my life who doesn’t respect my relationship with God?
  41. Is it difficult for me to admit to my wrongdoings?
  42. How do I measure my spiritual development?
  43. I know prayer works because….
  44. If I were to meet Jesus today, what would I be ashamed of?
  45. How would I like to be remembered most in life? What steps do I need to take to get there?
  46. How often do I pray?
  47. Do my actions and words place God as my first priority?
  48. How much effort am I putting into my relationship with God?
  49. Do I ever experience doubts about my faith? 
  50. Do I enjoy praying?
  51. Do I embellish my stories?
  52. How much does His Word influence my decisions?
  53. How have I experienced feeling God’s presence?
  54. Is it enough to only pray for someone in need when I know I can serve them in another way too?
  55. How has my faith been influenced?
  56. How do I show praise to God?
  57. Do I put others' opinions above God’s?
  58. How do I show gratitude to God?
  59. How do I say no to temptation?
  60. Do I truly trust God?
  61. Something that inspires me is….
  62. How do I discern whether or not something is a temptation?
  63. How do I ask for forgiveness?
  64. Have I read the entire Bible?
  65. Are there limits to God’s grace?
  66. Are there any truths I am ignoring?
  67. Do my actions reflect those of Christ?
  68. Do I view myself as worthy of forgiveness or am I unable to push past guilt?
  69. Do I uplift and encourage others?
  70. Why are my values important to me?
  71. Who do I connect to most in the Bible? Why?
  72. Do I trust others with ease?
  73. When I repent, do I make a commitment to not repeat the sin?
  74. What steps do I take to study the Bible beyond just reading it?
  75. Do I unconsciously cast judgment on others by saying or thinking, “I would never do that”?
  76. Do I try to repair broken relationships?
  77. Do I take my faith into consideration when consuming media? (TV, movies, music, podcasts, books, etc.) 
  78. Do I surround myself with those who influence and encourage me to stay true to my values?
  79. Am I overly critical of anyone in my life?
  80. Am I open to receiving God’s answers?
  81. Do I show my real self to others or do I put on a performance?
  82. I know my relationship with God is at risk when….
  83. Do I show kindness and respect to those who don’t show it to me?
  84. Do I share my faith with others?
  85. Am I humble?
  86. Am I hiding from the purpose God has given me?
  87. One unanswered prayer of mine is….       I think it is unanswered because….
  88. Do I self-sabotage?
  89. Am I able to push away negative thoughts and feelings, instead opting to focus on the positive?
  90. Am I able to confidently stand up and defend my faith?
  91. Do I recognize the silver lining in situations?
  92. Do I often find myself judging others? 
  93. Do I minimize my mistakes?
  94. What benefits do I get from praying?
  95. Do I keep my promises?
  96. Do I justify my actions?
  97. Am I double-minded?
  98. Am I doing my part to fulfill God’s purpose?
  99. Do I interact daily with God?
  100. Do I hold myself accountable for my mistakes and wrongdoings?
  101. Do I have to always be correct?
  102. Have I centered my life around God?
  103. Do my words reflect those of Christ?
  104. Do I have meaningful relationships with my church family?
  105. Do I have healthy habits?
  106. Do I have a problem with authority?
  107. Do I allow day-to-day life to interfere with my relationship with God?
  108. Do I accept corrections or am I defensive?
  109. Does my attitude align with my faith?
  110. Are there times I feel undeserving of His love?
  111. Are there some things I don’t think I need to repent for?
  112. Do I love money to the point of idolizing it?
  113. Do I look down on others?
  114. Are there any aspects of my life where I can see the devil planting temptation?
  115. Are there any aspects of my life where I am prideful?
  116. Do I see the Bible as figurative or literal?
  117. Do I respond to everyone with love?
  118. Are my priorities in the correct places?
  119. In social situations, do I stand up for what is right?
  120. Are my actions driven by seeking approval from someone else?
  121. Am I trustworthy?
  122. Do I gossip?
  123. Do I focus on what I don’t like about someone, refusing to see the positive in them?
  124. Do I feel resentment toward anyone?
  125. Am I too busy to notice those in my community who need help?
  126. Am I sorry for all of my sins? 
  127. Why do I attend church service?
  128. Am I looking for ways to serve others?
  129. Am I fulfilling my purpose?
  130. Who can I share my testimony with?
  131. Where can I improve my faith?
  132. Am I aware of Satan in my life?
  133. If I could change one thing about church, it would be…
  134. Do I always turn to God for help?
  135. Am I a fake forgiver?


Scriptures Emphasizing the Need for Reflection

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror, and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do.

Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless. 

James 1:22-26

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As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man.

Proverbs 27:19

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"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. “Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!

Matthew 7:7-11

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Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

Romans 12:2

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Therefore, brothers and sisters, we have an obligation—but it is not to the flesh, to live according to it. For if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live.

Romans 8:12-13

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As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance.

1 Peter 1:14

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How many wrongs and sins have I committed Show me my offense and my sin.

Job 13:23

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“I the Lord search the heart and examine the mind, to reward each person according to their conduct, according to what their deeds deserve.”

Jeremiah 17:10

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Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord.

Lamentations 3:40

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But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.

Galatians 5:22-26

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Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace. The mind governed by the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s law, nor can it do so. Those who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God.

Romans 8:5-8

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Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in you—unless, of course, you fail the test?

2 Corinthians 13:5

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Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.

See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.

Psalm 139:23-24

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If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load. Nevertheless, the one who receives instruction in the word should share all good things with their instructor.

Galatians 6:3-6

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There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known. What you have said in the dark will be heard in the daylight, and what you have whispered in the ear in the inner rooms will be proclaimed from the roofs.

Luke 12:2-3

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Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. For, “Whoever would love life and see good days must keep their tongue from evil and their lips from deceitful speech. They must turn from evil and do good; they must seek peace and pursue it. For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their prayer, but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.”

1 Peter 3:9-12

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This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin. If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word is not in us.

1 John 1:5-10

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Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters

Colossians 3:23

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To Conclude

Scheduling time for regular evaluation is an effective instrument that positively promotes your spiritual journey. It grants you the chance to pinpoint your position in your faith to develop an invaluable awareness and discernment allowing for a deeper and honest look past your perception of yourself. Reflection assists in assuring your actions, thoughts, and words are in accordance with your values. Seek out the guidance of the Lord to better understand and accept your shortcomings and how to navigate through them. He wants to help keep you on the path of righteousness. 

-Torrance Church of Christ 

 

Significant Proverbs to Contemplate

The New Year is nearly upon us and with that usually comes New Year Resolutions; pledges and goals that we work toward to encompass personal change. A common theme in many Americans' New Year Resolutions is physical health, consisting of starting a new diet and eating healthier, going to the gym, or getting more sleep. Those are all great aspirations to have, but what about working toward your spiritual health? 

Working on your spiritual health can involve more than studying your Bible and praying. It can be working on yourself as a person and developing more Christlike habits. The Book of Proverbs is brimming with profound guidance that can help elevate your spiritual health. Luckily for you, we’ve prepared a list of notable Proverbs below. 


Here’s The List

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Apply your heart to instruction and your ears to words of knowledge.

Proverbs 23:12

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One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

Proverbs 18:24

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An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips.

Proverbs 24:26

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Those who flatter their neighbors are spreading nets for their feet.

Proverbs 29:5

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Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.

Proverbs 31:9

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It is a trap to dedicate something rashly and only later to consider one’s vows.

Proverbs 20:25

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Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered,

or you may learn their ways, and get yourself ensnared.

Proverbs 22:24-25

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A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.

Proverbs 17:22

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A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.

Proverbs 19:11

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Light in a messenger’s eyes brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones.

Proverbs 15:30

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Whoever disregards discipline comes to poverty and shame, but whoever heeds correction is honored.

Proverbs 13:18

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All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty.

Proverbs 14:23

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Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring.

Proverbs 27:1

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A gossip betrays a confidence; so avoid anyone who talks too much.

Proverbs 20:19

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The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.

Proverbs 20:5

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Dishonest money dwindles away, but whoever gathers money little by little makes it grow.

Proverbs 13:11

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Wealth is worthless in the day of wrath, but righteousness delivers from death.

Proverbs 11:4

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The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice.

Proverbs 12:15

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Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction is stupid.

Proverbs 12:1

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Better to meet a bear robbed of her cubs than a fool bent on folly.

Proverbs 17:12

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All a person’s ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the Lord.

Proverbs 16:2

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In Short

New Year is representative of personal growth and change. It is imperative that we always work on ourselves for personal growth. The Book of Proverbs is full of great insight and wisdom to help us achieve growth and shouldn’t be overlooked when looking for ways to make these intimate changes within ourselves. 

-Torrance Church of Christ 

The Birth of Christ

Below is a short summary of the Birth of Christ. You can find the Christmas Story in Luke Chapters 1 and 2 and Matthew Chapters 1 and 2. 

Mary and Joseph were a young engaged couple living in Nazareth, a town in Galilee. God sent the Angel Gabriel to visit Mary. Gabriel said to her:

But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.” 

Luke 1:30-33

Confused, Mary asked Gabriel how that could be so, considering she was a virgin. 

The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God.

Luke 1:35

Mary faithfully agreed, stating that she was the Lord’s servant. 

Evenso, Joseph began to have doubts. Because Mary was pregnant, he wasn’t sure if he should still marry her. 

So an Angel visited him in a dream:

But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”

All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel”(which means “God with us”).

Matthew 1:20-23

This comforted Joseph, and he took Mary as his wife. 

Months later, all the people of the Roman Empire were ordered to register for a census. Because Joseph was from the line of David, the couple traveled by donkey to the town of Bethlehem so they could register. It was here that Mary went into labor.  Because of the census, Bethlehem was overcrowded. Mary and Joseph were turned away for a room.  

They took refuge in a stable. Surrounded by farm animals, Mary humbly brought The Son of God into His earthly existence. Baby Jesus was swaddled and placed into a manger full of hay for a bed. 

In the nearby fields, an angel appeared to a troop of shepherds that were watching over their flocks.

An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

Luke 2:9-12

Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,

“Glory to God in the highest heaven ,and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”

Luke 2:13-14



The angels left, and the shepherds excitedly agreed to find the stable giving shelter to the Baby Jesus. After visiting the new family, the shepherds joyously told everyone about the Messiah. They left glorifying God. 

After some time, three Magi (Wise Men) came to Jerusalem, seeking out the Messiah. 

and asked, “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.”

Matthew 2:2

This made King Herod angry, for he wanted to be seen as the king of the Jews. Herod met with the Magi and instructed them to follow the star and find Baby Jesus. They were to report back to him the exact location of the Christ Child. 

The Magi followed the star until they found the small family. 

When they saw the star, they were overjoyed.

Matthew 2:10

The three men offered gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh, and they worshiped The Newborn King. 

Soon after, the Magi left back to their country, taking a different route so they would avoid Herod. 

Other Places in The Bible Christ’s Birth is Mentioned:

 Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel.

Isaiah 7:14

For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

Isaiah 9:6

“But you, Bethlehem Ephrathah, though you are small among the clans of Judah, out of you will come for me one who will be ruler over Israel, whose origins are from of old, from ancient times.”

Micah 5:2

One Last Note...

Although we do not know the Month of Christ’s birth, we do know it was during the time Herod governed. Even though we do not know when He was born, December 25th and the Christmas Season as a whole, have been designated to celebrate His birth since 336 A.D. 

Author Max Lucado observed, “ Christmas begins what Easter celebrates.”

Regardless of knowing the factual date, the extraordinary reality that most of mankind is focused on Him is simply beautiful. What is truly important is that He was born, whatever date that was, because if He hadn’t been born, He couldn’t lead us toward eternal salvation. Therefore, let’s celebrate His birth with the rest of the world! 

Take delight in this sacred celebration that enables us to honor Christ by employing the Christmas Spirit to spread goodness and love to all. 

We are Wishing You a Very Merry and Blessed Christmas!

- Torrance Church of Christ

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